Men & Commitment

I often tell my girlfriends that I can always spot a "Wife-beater". What's a Wife-beater? Men who are narcissistic, arrogant, insensitive, uncaring and are unlikely to commit in a relationship. How do you spot one? If a guy looks like he spends more time on his hair than you do - he's probably one. If a guy dirty talk with you before he gets to know your name, he just want to get into your pants. If a guy always say no, stay far far away.

So what should a girl do? If you are looking for a long term relationship, find someone who's genuine (trust me, you'll know if someone is genuine), who's a bit adventurous and wants to try new things and most important of all, someone who's truly care about you. If someone truly care about you, he won't ditch your dinner plan just an hour before the scheduled time. He also won't make you check your phone a hundred times an hour to see if you missed his call/text or that your phone had miraculously stopped working.

One day something hit me and I wonder if I should do a market research on it: Bald or balding men are more willing to commit. I suddenly noticed that a lot of guys with a full head of hair at work/in my personal life are either still single or unmarried (my boyfriend included). Vice versa, most of the bald men I know are ready to propose or already married. May be they want to lock a woman down while they still have some hair on their head? If you notice the same thing, you definitely should let me know. May be the new 2010 strategy to find "The One" is to find a balding man.